What It Means To Pay Yourself First

What It Means To Yourself First

There seems to be an endless stream of envelopes from companies all demanding payment for their products and services. It feels like you have a choice of what you want to do with your money ONLY after all the bills have been paid. And this even if there’s anything left over. While you are not alone in this situation, there is always a way out. You can turn things around by paying yourself first before you attend to any bill. This article will show you what it means to pay yourself first.

Bills, bills, mortgage payment, another bill, maybe some coupons for things you never buy, and of course, more bills.

You are probably familiar with the statement above. For most people, there is no end in view. If you are not careful, this will become something that goes out of hand.

Are There More Mouths Than Dollar?

Most times, it seems like there’s more ‘month’ than ‘dollar.’ Yes, you read it right. Not to rub salt in the wound, but may I ask how much you’re saving each month? $100? $50? Nothing? You may have made a plan and come up with a rock-solid budget in the past, but let’s get real. One month’s expenditures can be very different than another’s. Birthdays, holidays, last-minute things the kids need for school, a spontaneous weekend getaway, replacing that 12-year-old dishwasher that doesn’t sound exactly right, etc., can make saving a fixed amount each month a challenge. Don’t get me wrong, the seems to be the norm with most people.


In some months, you may actually be able to save something while in some other months, you can’t. The result is that setting funds aside each month becomes an uncertainty. Although this situation might appear at first benign (i.e. it’s just the way things are), the impact of this uncertainty can have far-reaching negative consequences.

Here’s why: If you don’t know how much you can save each month, then you don’t know how much you can save each year. If you don’t know how much you can save each year, then you don’t know how much you’ll have put away 2, 5, 10, or 20 years from now. Will you have enough saved for retirement?

If you have a goal in mind like buying a home in 10 years or retiring at 65, then you also need a realistic plan that will help you get there. Truth is, most of us don’t have a wealthy relative who might unexpectedly leave us an inheritance we never knew existed!

But you might be surprised by much you can save if you put your mind to it. And you might want to do that… but how do you do that?

How Do You Develop A Saving Culture?

The secret is to “pay yourself first.” The first “bill” you pay each month is to yourself. Shifting your focus each month to a “pay yourself first” mentality is subtle, but it can potentially be life changing. Let’s say for example you make $3,000 per month after taxes. You would put aside $300 (10%) right off the bat, leaving you $2,700 for the rest of your bills. This tactic makes saving $300 per month a certainty. The answer to how much you would be saving each month would always be: “At least $300.” If you stash this in an interest-bearing account, imagine how high this can grow over time if you continue to contribute that $300.

That’s exciting! But at this point you might be thinking, “I can’t afford to save 10% of my income every month because the leftovers aren’t enough for me to live my lifestyle.” If that’s the case, rather than reducing the amount you save, it might be worthwhile to consider if it’s the lifestyle you can’t afford.

Ultimately, paying yourself first means you’re making your future financial goals a priority, and that’s a bill worth paying.

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About Remi Obadele

He has a passion for technology and its potential to transform businesses. He has helped small, medium and large enterprises achieve their goals and objectives. He has over 18 years experience in the IT and Telecoms space in project and portfolio management, release and deployment management, business analysis, change management, outsourcing and managed services, product and service provisioning, software development and Infrastructure delivery. Remi is an experienced financial and investment management professional. He is passionate about financial literacy and how money works by encouraging business ownership. He facilitates Helpful Tips as means to helping families and giving back to the community. He is a graduate of Warwick Business School where he earned an MBA and he holds a Masters degree in Information Technology from the University of Lagos. He has PRINCE2, ITIL and Oracle certifications. He is also a certified and licensed financial professional in Canada.

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Notable Replies

  1. This is definitely the starting point to creating a better financial. No matter your excuse, if you don’t pay yourself first, any financial plan you have is a mere dream. While it is okay to start with saving 10%, I actually recommend 20%. It may be a huge ask in the beginning, but if you stick to it, your expenses will adjust accordingly.

  2. I totally agree with you but this takes a lot of discipline. Saving is not something we are used to. Some, one has to make a conscious effort to cultivate this habit.

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